Let’s get one thing straight: Andrew Tate didn’t create the crisis of masculinity in America. He’s just capitalizing on it. His brand of “toxic masculinity”—built on domination, materialism, and the exploitation of others—isn’t the root of the problem. It’s the bitter fruit of a culture that’s forgotten what true biblical masculinity looks like. As a Christian wrestling with this issue, I’ve come to see that the vacuum of godly male leadership in our homes, churches, and communities has left a generation of men desperate for direction. And when the church fails to disciple men, the world will gladly fill the void with counterfeits.
The Problem: A Crisis of Identity
Modern American culture is drowning in confusion about masculinity. Men are either portrayed as bumbling fools in media, emotionally neutered by a culture that shames strength, or celebrated for aggression and selfish ambition. Enter Andrew Tate, whose “alpha male” persona—complete with bravado, wealth-flaunting, and misogyny—has become a beacon for lost men. But his version of masculinity isn’t revolutionary. It’s a reaction. A reaction to a society that no longer knows how to define manhood through the lens of Scripture.
Where’s the biblical masculinity?
True biblical masculinity isn’t about dominance or flexing power. It’s about sacrificial leadership, humility, and courageous integrity. Consider Jesus, who rebuked His disciples for seeking worldly power (Mark 10:42-45), washed feet, and laid down His life. Or David, a warrior who wept (Psalm 6:6), repented deeply (Psalm 51), and led with a heart for God. Today, though, we see:
- Absence of servant leadership: Fathers disengaged, husbands passive, men prioritizing careers over character.
- Emotional detachment: Men taught to suppress grief, fear, or tenderness, reducing them to emotional islands.
- Moral compromise: Silence in the face of injustice, addiction to porn, and a “win at all costs” mentality.
These gaps create fertile soil for Tate’s message. When men aren’t grounded in Christ-like purpose, they’ll chase whatever makes them feel powerful.
The Root Issue: Where Did We Go Wrong?
The church bears responsibility here. For decades, we’ve watered down discipleship, avoided hard teachings on sin and responsibility, and too often mirrored the world’s values. Consider:
- The “Nice Guy” Gospel: Many churches preach a sanitized, risk-averse version of faith that reduces men to “being nice” rather than following a strong Savior. Where are the calls to “act like men” (1 Corinthians 16:13) or to “fight the good fight of faith” (1 Timothy 6:12)?
- Fatherlessness: Over 18 million children live without a father in America. Boys raised without godly male role models often seek identity in extremes—either toxic machismo or apathy.
- Cultural Captivity: Churches chasing relevance often adopt secular therapies (self-help, pop psychology) over Scripture’s transformative power. We’ve neglected to teach that true strength is found in dependence on God (2 Corinthians 12:10).
Replanting the Roots: A Biblical Blueprint
The solution isn’t to “cancel” Andrew Tate or shame lost men. It’s to reclaim and reassert biblical masculinity. Here’s how:
- Teach Men to Embrace Sacred Responsibility
Adam’s first task was to cultivate and protect the Garden (Genesis 2:15). Biblical men are stewards, not tyrants. Churches must call men to lead in their homes, disciple their children, and defend the vulnerable—not as dictators, but as servants. - Model Emotional and Spiritual Health
Jesus wept (John 11:35). David danced (2 Samuel 6:14). Paul confessed weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). Men need safe spaces to express grief, fear, and joy without shame. Small groups, mentorship, and honest preaching can dismantle the lie that vulnerability is weakness. - Restore Moral Courage
Joseph fled temptation (Genesis 39:12). Daniel refused to compromise (Daniel 1:8). Men today need backbone—not to dominate others, but to stand for truth in a culture of moral relativism. Churches must equip men to reject porn, confront the enemy, and live with integrity. - Fight for Brotherhood
Jonathan and David’s loyalty (1 Samuel 18:1-4) and Paul’s mentorship of Timothy (2 Timothy 1:2) show that biblical masculinity thrives in community. Churches need brotherhoods where men hold each other accountable, pray together, and sharpen one another (Proverbs 27:17).
Final Thoughts: Uprooting the Toxin
Andrew Tate’s influence is a symptom, not the disease. The cure is a return to the unapologetic, countercultural vision of manhood Scripture provides: men who lead with love, fight for holiness, and find their worth in Christ—not conquests. The church must stop outsourcing discipleship to influencers and start raising up men who look less like “alpha” caricatures and more like Jesus.
It’s time to dig up the root of passivity and compromise and replant the seeds of bold, humble, biblical masculinity. The harvest depends on it.


